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& take heed of being out of ye family as you belong to at unseasonable
times, & late; as at weddings it is ye dangerous liberty sum take young
men & mayds to be out very late you little think what danger & evill
you expose your selves to; you have noe promise of gods keeping when you
are out of gods way, If dinah will be from home[10] [------] yt she may se
& be seen you know what she mett wth, & let parents look to it to com
mand your houses to keep ye commands of God & shun temptations to sin
and doe not onely require it but se it be done; if this warning be of noe
use to you ye time will come when you shall lament it 5 prov 11.12
: TO the offendor was sayd
I know not how to speak to you with that sorrow, compassion & terr
or as I ought, I must speak to you as to one yt have shown your self
exceeding Carnal & fleshly minded : Amongst the Jewes they were account
ed fools in Israel that defiled yms with such unclean lusts 2 Sam 13
13. yea the lord compares such to bruit beats to fed horses & ye Ex
pressions of lusts Either in word or gesture are called neighings 5 Jer
8. more particularly let me leev these 10 words wth you
1 Consider how much & often you have done ye divells part to be
a tempter to your self instead of avoyding all occasions you took
many oppertunities to make provision for these fleshly lusts that warr
against ye soul God Sas keep thyself farr from an evill matter[11] Soe
to dally with mayds & women was an evill matter but you kept not
farr from it; but made frequent approaches to doe evill in ye sight
of god, Come not near ye door of her house, pass not by it but pass
away 4 prov. 15 you have come near tho not to ye door of harlots yet wt
impunity to make harlotts, it seems to me worse then to goe to a harlotts
house for a man to goe to chast womens houses to se if he can make them such
2 you have Shown a great deal of atheism, Joseph when he was tempted by
his mistress, the fear of God kept him how can I doe ys great wickedness
& sin against God 39 Gen 9, ye great Atheism of your heart appeared in yor
waighting for ye twilight 24 Job 15 & Els wher he tells us yt ys is a hai
nous crime to be punished by the judges, for a mans hert to be deceived
by a woman & to ly in waight at or neighbours door & soe se what
Job imprecates upon hims: if he had soe done 31 Job. 9. 10. 11. Its ye
Speech of am eminent devine that usually he is a wicked man as to his State
that waights for a temptation, you waighted many a time it was wth delibe
ration not upon some sudden hurry of temptation but wth much contrivance
The girl repented of ye incorragement she gave you to meet you but
you repented not of your promise to give her a meeting
3 ffalsness in ye marriage covenant you dealt treacherously with ye wife of yor
your youth 2 Matt 14 & caused tears & sorrow to her therby you stand
in these things aganst ye remedy more yt 1 Cor 7. 2. he is a monster in
lusts whom yt remedy refrains not, you forgott yt covenant of god though
twice both at contraction & marriage you engaged before god whose name
was yn called upon that you would carry it to wards her as become a
husband; vide 48 page 5 particular:[12] angry wth his wife &c.
4 What a wofull Corruptor of youth have you bin instead of drawing them
to ye love of god & his ways- oh to be a teacher of Evill is a Sad Evill 28
Jer 16; yor Comand is to fly youthfull lusts you have but done a little to
[10] A reference to Gen. 34, in which Dinah, the daughter of Jacob and Leah, “went out to see the daughters of the land,” and was kidnapped and raped by Shechem.
[11] Possibly referring to I Pet. 4:15.
[12] See p. 000.